Is he the “anti-hero” or possibly he simply has “dangerous blood?” Maybe it’s simply time for him to “shake it off” and help his spouse’s obsession with Taylor Swift. Okay, okay…we’ll cease now and let him take care of his personal “karma.” (Sorry, we had one final Swift music reference to throw at you earlier than leaping into the true challenge.)
A Redditor desires to know if he’s the a**gap as a result of he doesn’t emotionally help his spouse’s excessive obsession with the singer, and loads of different Reddit customers had some issues to say about his state of affairs.
“AITAH As a result of I Don’t Emotionally Help My Spouse’s Obsession With Taylor Swift?”
Redditor Johnnywritesstuff began a thread to see if he’s certainly the a**gap within the state of affairs of him not supporting his spouse’s obsession with Swift.
“My spouse is totally obsessive about Taylor Swift. For the final 12 months + that’s all she listens to. Each Taylor Swift album on one steady loop when she’s understanding and even simply strolling round the home doing stuff,” he defined. “Spent $2k to go see her not too long ago on the eras tour. In all probability spent one other $200 on merch. She filmed the present on her cellphone and can commonly put it on the TV and simply look ahead to hours. May even watch the livestreams of her performances on TikTok or no matter streaming platform these are on.”
His spouse additionally refers back to the dwell live performance as “the very best expertise of my life.” She claims that Swift is a “way of life,” and he mentioned he simply doesn’t perceive.
“I’ve for certain made feedback to my spouse implying that this complete Taylor Swift factor is getting out of hand,” he went on to elucidate. “I additionally was not tremendous stoked that she was spending that a lot on one ticket to go see one live performance, however finally it’s what she actually needed and we had the cash, so I mentioned sure, and I’m pleased that she acquired to go.”
He additionally mentioned that she not too long ago blew up at him over the truth that he doesn’t help her as a lot as she feels she ought to. She desires him to cease making impolite feedback and cease rolling his eyes and be extra emotionally supportive of her obsession.
To the feedback…
Possibly You’re Getting In The Method
“It’s appears to me like u r getting in the way in which of ur spouse’s and Taylor Swifts relationship.”
~Actual-Negotiation8162
Nope, NTA
“NTA: You completely usually are not required to “emotionally help” her tremendous fandom.
She appears bizarre.”
~WarrenMulaney
A Little Of Each Maybe
“Data: are you asking about not supporting her pastime, or for actively shi**ing on it?
She cites feedback I make implying its a cult and the one one profitable right here is Taylor Swift raking within the dough, and possibly its time to concentrate on different issues. She desires me to cease making feedback like that and cease rolling my eyes
Calling her pastime a cult and rolling your eyes when she talks about are positively the strikes of an a**gap.
Simply think about how’d you are feeling if somebody did that to you.
So, you’re N T A for ‘not emotionally supporting’ her pastime, however 100% YTA for being an condescending asshole about how you expressed your displeasure at her having fun with herself in a method you don’t like.”
~Phill_Cyberman
Contemplate Not Teasing
“I don’t suppose you’re an AH in your feedback concerning the fiscal facet of the disagreement. That could be a wholesome dialogue in a wedding.
Disparaging one thing she enjoys appears pointless. Calling it a cult and rolling your eyes. A lot of instances these little issues begin as harmless teasing, however find yourself going too far and hurting the associate.
One thing to think about.”
~Cranktique
Marriage Counseling Obligatory
“How tf can Taylor Swift be a “Way of life” to a grown grownup? I’m a serious fan of my favourite band, I’ve traveled to different cities to go see them, have tattoos associated to them, however I wouldn’t say they’re my way of life! NTA, I feel you might want to consider marriage counseling if she is making it this massive of a difficulty.”
~kreifdawg77
Let Her Have Her Obsession
“Truthfully, there are many folks which can be obsessive about sports activities and all of us simply shrug and are like ‘that’s regular’. However a girl loves Taylor Swift and everyone seems to be like “omg! Is she 12?” She isn’t hurting something. Let her have her factor.”
~ConsciousExcitement9
“Loopy”
“Dude if you happen to n Taylor are in a burning constructing and your spouse may solely save one, effectively, I’d go to your funeral. Your state of affairs sounds loopy.”
~Akira38
Give Her A Style Of Her Personal Drugs
“NTA
As a fellow Swiftie, she’s gone too far. No movie star must be emotional help or a way of life. That’s borderline loopy speak.
Possibly get tremendous arduous into the Messi fandom and play clips and interviews nonstop. Some folks can’t see the issue except there’s a comparative situation to assist them perceive.
Once I see followers like this I simply again away slowly.”
~Taylor_Spliff_13
